fuck you gender binary
jessicavalenti:

Oh hell no. Find out more about this awful victim-blaming ad and what you can do to get it pulled here.

jessicavalenti:

Oh hell no. Find out more about this awful victim-blaming ad and what you can do to get it pulled here.

ad-busting:

Open your eyes and you’ll see subtle (and not-so-subtle) images of violence in a lot of advertisements and fashion shoots. America’s Next Top Model even did a “crime scene victims” photo shoot, which is pretty horrific.

Fuck. I’d never really noticed this before.

ad-busting:

Open your eyes and you’ll see subtle (and not-so-subtle) images of violence in a lot of advertisements and fashion shoots. America’s Next Top Model even did a “crime scene victims” photo shoot, which is pretty horrific.

Fuck. I’d never really noticed this before.

Spot the transphobia and gender essentialism!
(The homophobia is obvious.)

Spot the transphobia and gender essentialism!

(The homophobia is obvious.)

At least we’re not quite this bad any more. Most of the time.

At least we’re not quite this bad any more. Most of the time.


This is a painting I did for my little cousin who will soon be going through a bone marrow transplant. I hope that every time she looks at it she will feel brave and strong.

Qavah the Brave by ~Wes-Talbott

I love it. The world need more pictures (and cousins) like this! 

This is a painting I did for my little cousin who will soon be going through a bone marrow transplant. I hope that every time she looks at it she will feel brave and strong.

Qavah the Brave by ~Wes-Talbott

I love it. The world need more pictures (and cousins) like this! 

“What My 3 Year Old Reminded Me About Self Image”

Interesting - and somewhat disheartening - blog post by a jeweller who was recently brought up short by her three year old son expressing concern about his image. A good reminder that this type of socialization affects little boys, too.

I am still trying to wrap my head and emotions about the fact that my 3 year old has already started to wonder about his self image. 

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Matt sent me this picture snapped in the Edinburgh Ikea a couple days ago. This is apparently Ikea’s idea of what will be in a man’s drawer. He helpfully tagged all the items:

-Socks and unsettelingly elasticated underwear
-Wallet
-Cinema Pass
-A girl’s phone number, complete with lipstick imprint, on a card
-Those bead/leather bracelet-strap things that complete wankers wear
-Something to do with the silly team-sports so many males are laughably infatuated with?
-Hair “product”
-The inevitable pack of condoms
-Breath freshening gum and (I presume) a razor
-Magazines - tits and Clarkson
-iPhone, with the kind of sporto-looking headphones that a 15 year old would think looked cool
-Boy films

No Lynx, at least, I guess? Sigh.

Yes, there was also a Lady Drawer, complete with tampons, hair-curling equipment, knickers and unidentifiable but universally pink and/or flower-emblazoned miscellanea.

Matt sent me this picture snapped in the Edinburgh Ikea a couple days ago. This is apparently Ikea’s idea of what will be in a man’s drawer. He helpfully tagged all the items:

-Socks and unsettelingly elasticated underwear

-Wallet

-Cinema Pass

-A girl’s phone number, complete with lipstick imprint, on a card

-Those bead/leather bracelet-strap things that complete wankers wear

-Something to do with the silly team-sports so many males are laughably infatuated with?

-Hair “product”

-The inevitable pack of condoms

-Breath freshening gum and (I presume) a razor

-Magazines - tits and Clarkson

-iPhone, with the kind of sporto-looking headphones that a 15 year old would think looked cool

-Boy films

No Lynx, at least, I guess? Sigh.

Yes, there was also a Lady Drawer, complete with tampons, hair-curling equipment, knickers and unidentifiable but universally pink and/or flower-emblazoned miscellanea.